March 25, 1947 Feb. 8, 2026
Patricia Ann Whitehead, 78, of Fair Oaks Ranch, Texas, passed away peacefully on Feb 8, surrounded by her family after a courageous battle with cancer.
Patricia was born on March 25, 1947, in San Antonio, Texas, to Richard and Evelyn Howard. She was raised with strong family values that shaped the woman she became — kind, dependable and unwaveringly loyal to those she loved.
As a young woman, Patricia cherished time spent on the water at Lake McQueeny with her beloved older sister, Frances, and brother-in-law, Martin Nanney. An exceptional water skier, she delighted her young nephews and niece with her technical slalom skills and daring trick-ski stunts, leaving them in awe of her confidence and grace.
After graduating from MacArthur High School in San Antonio, Patricia began her career as a civilian administrative clerk at Kelly Air Force Base. Following her move to Fair Oaks Ranch in 1980, she devoted the next 25 years to the City of Boerne as the Administrative Assistant to the Chief of Police.
Known for her exceptional organizational skills, attention to detail and quiet strength, Patricia earned the deep respect and appreciation of her colleagues. She often took on a nurturing role for young officers, making sure every special occasion was marked with a home-baked treat. A true pillar of the Boerne community, she found great meaning in working, living, and raising her family in the Texas Hill Country.
The heart of Patricia’s world was her family. She was married to the love of her life, Charles Thomas “Tommy” Whitehead, for 52 devoted years. Together, they built a home grounded in love, support, and enduring commitment. Patricia was a fiercely loyal and supportive mother, grandmother, and aunt who adored her family and took immense joy in each of them.
She never missed a birthday, never forgot a milestone, and would travel anywhere to be present for those she loved — cheering on her grandchildren from Alaska to Boston, Houston to Kentucky, Pittsburgh to Canada, and beyond. Whether celebrating marathons, hockey tournaments, dance performances, and multiple graduations across the country, Patricia was always there, beaming with love and encouragement. After Tommy’s passing in 2019, she continued to support his 25th Infantry Division “Wolfhound” brothers and treasured attending reunions in Colorado, Tennessee, and Kentucky.
At home in Fair Oaks Ranch, “Granny Pat” as she was affectionately known by her grandchildren, found peace feeding the deer beneath the old oak trees — a simple pleasure that reflected her gentle, nurturing spirit. Soft-spoken and kind, she was thoughtful in every way. Whether it was her famous spicy pretzels or the lemon and pumpkin bars she carefully prepared for family gatherings, baking was her love language.
Patricia will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and the Boerne community she held so dear.
Patricia is survived by her daughter, Misty Michelle Mahase, and granddaughter, Piper Mahase; her son, Charles Thomas Whitehead II; daughter-in-law, Alyson; and grandchildren Charles “Trey” Whitehead III, Braxton Whitehead, and Berkeley Whitehead. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Tommy, with whom she will be reunited.
Patricia will be interred with her husband at Fort Sam Houston during a private ceremony at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the American Cancer Society in Patricia’s memory.
— PAID OBITUARY —
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