Q: My husband had an affair with another woman. It’s over now, I genuinely believe he’s truly sorry, and we’re working toward reconciliation. But as a somewhat embarrassing practical consideration – should he be tested for sexually transmitted infections (STI) and diseases?
Jim: I’m sorry to hear about the affair but encouraged by the progress you’re making. And to answer your question – you should both get tested as soon as possible, for many reasons.
The first and most obvious concern is that an STI could have huge implications for your health as well as the sexual dimension of your relationship. This is especially important for you, since some of these diseases can lie dormant in a woman’s body for a long time before showing any symptoms. It’s critical to bring the facts to light as soon as possible to avoid potential further damage.
