Second thoughts about divorce

Q: My divorce was finalized recently. But over the past few weeks, I’ve become concerned about how this family breakup is impacting our preschooler. I wonder if maybe we could have made a better go of it. Should I consider remarrying my ex-spouse for the sake of our child?

Jim: By its very nature, divorce often involves plenty of anger and bitterness. So if your ex-spouse has no desire to continue the relationship, there probably isn’t much you can do to change their mind.

But – if you’re both willing to move beyond the hurts and resentments of the past, there’s a chance you could put your relationship back together again. And you’re right – that would be in your child’s best interests.