Q: My wife and I often feel overwhelmed by “life stuff.” I think we spend so much time and energy in our roles as Mom and Dad that we neglect our own relationship. Is it just a case of recognizing that our needs as a couple have to be put on hold until our kids are older and less demanding?
Jim: We hear this sort of question a lot; I think most couples with children can relate to some extent. A household can only be as strong as its component parts – namely, husband, wife and kids. Healthy families are made up of healthy individuals, and happy, successful marriages tend to produce thriving, well-adjusted children.
Loving, connected spouses make the most effective moms and dads. So, the very best thing you can do for your children is to concentrate on creating the strongest possible bond with your mate. There are at least 12 distinctive qualities we’ve identified here at Focus on the Family that are vital for successful marriages. Here’s a brief look at them:
